The boys computer skills make their dad proud, but they also make him a little nervous. As webmaster for an Internet provider in Sergeant Bluffs, Iowa, Scott Copple knows cyberspace can lead his kids into trouble.
So Copple keeps the computer in the living room so he can check on the children and warns them not to talk about themselves online. He also uses an Internet filter to help.
Filters have been around a while, starting with basic software that filters out certain words and blocks sites that include them.
Other filters ban specified sites or allow access only to a pre-approved list.
A third type restricts surfing to sites that carry voluntary ratings. These block pornographic websites but also unrated sites such as the White House and Supreme Court.
Popular software options include:
Families also can use Internet providers to filter. Some of the countrys largest Internet service providers offer improved parental controls.
Remember that no technology can replace solid parenting, says Parry Aftab, director of www.wiredSafety.org and author of The Parents Guide to Protecting Your Children in Cyberspace. The best filter isnt childproof, and wont keep kids from giving personal information online.
Ask your children about their online friends, she says, and try to guide them toward kid-friendly websites and search engines.
Unless we teach our children how to use the filter between their ears, theyre at risk, Aftab says. Thats the most important filter out there.