Giving Hugs to Heroes
Soft-spoken Bailey Reese sits at the kitchen table of her home in Niceville, Fla., diligently packing boxes with gum, candy, mints and puzzles
by Sandy Summer
Soft-spoken Bailey Reese sits at the kitchen table of her home in Niceville, Fla. (pop. 11,684), diligently packing boxes with gum, candy, mints and puzzles—little things that say “Thank you” to U.S. soldiers in Iraq. On the outside of one box is a large heart and the words “We love our troops.” Another heart reads “American Hero—Thank You.”
Since kindergarten, Bailey has helped send more than 34,000 thank-you gift boxes to soldiers overseas through her Hero Hugs organization. “It’s a lot of work,” says Bailey, 12. “But I like doing it.”
Bailey started her program in 2004 after Hurricane Ivan left extensive damage and knocked out utilities, including running water, in her hometown. She and her mother, Diana Reese, waited at a checkpoint while military servicemen handed out water and ice. Bailey overheard many of the people in line complaining to the soldiers about the wait, the inconvenience, the heat. She thought the people should be thanking the soldiers instead.
Consequently, Bailey asked her mom if she could send some gifts to servicemen and servicewomen in Iraq. She invited some of her neighborhood friends to help decorate and fill boxes with sweet tokens of gratitude. During the first six months, they shipped about 50 packages overseas, but as the project gained momentum, box packing moved out of the house and into local classrooms, where school kids were eager to pitch in.
“I wanted to be friends with Bailey the first time I saw her in school,” says Angela Riseden, 12, of Crestview, Fla. With Angela’s mother deployed in Iraq, she was excited about participating in Hero Hugs, which she describes as “very cool and awesome.”
Soon after she started Hero Hugs, Bailey decided the troops needed a mascot. She made a bear, “Hero,” dressed him in fatigues and sent him to Iraq. The troops loved Hero, who was photographed all over Iraq and eventually returned from his “tour of duty” sporting an Iraqi Freedom medal and an ankle bracelet made by an Iraqi woman. Bailey wrote a child’s book about Hero, The Adventures of Hero, which she hopes to publish, she says, because it could comfort kids of soldiers and sailors deployed overseas.
On weekends, Bailey can be found at nearby stores giving away “Support the Troops” magnets and drumming up donations for her organization, which to date has raised more than $350,000. “I ask people if they would like to give a donation to help send packages to soldiers,” she says. Many do—a weekend can net around $1,500, which buys a lot of gum, candy and trinkets.
Chief Master Sgt. Jerry L. Blankenship, 50, a U.S. Air Force reservist from St. Louis, has helped distribute Hero Hugs boxes in Iraq. “The expressions on those young soldiers’ faces made me realize just what this little girl does,” Blankenship says. He was so impressed that he contacted Bailey and visited her family.
Bailey even got to meet President George W. Bush at the White House, where she was honored for her contribution to U.S. military morale. “And I got to meet Barney, too,” she says, referring to the first family’s Scottish terrier.
When balancing school, cheerleading and Hero Hugs became too demanding, Bailey didn’t think twice—she quit cheerleading. She sometimes devotes 20 or more hours a week to Hero Hugs and is president of its board of directors, which is made up equally of kids and adults.
Bailey was the 2007 American Girl Real Girl of the Year, the 2006 Build-A-Bear Huggable Hero and the 2005 Angel Soft “Angels in Action” Grand Prize winner. In October, she received actor Paul Newman’s Newman’s Own Award for troop-based organizations. But the honors don’t impress her.
“Taking care of our soldiers and saying thanks is something everyone should be doing,” Bailey says. “It isn’t something special. The soldiers are the ones who deserve recognition for all they sacrifice and give—not me.”
Story by Sandy Summer of Mount Pleasant, S.C.
first appeared: 11/9/2008
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11/9/08 12:16 AM
Wow!! What an amazing little girl who is an inspiration to all of us to care and give a little more! I went to her website and immediately sent her a donation.
Disney or Nickelodeon needs to get a hold of this little girl....she is the kind of celebrity I want my kids to look up to. I showed my children the article and her website and they are going to make some cards for our troops and send them to Hero Hugs and talk to their teachers about their schools getting involved and helping Hero Hugs. Kudos to Bailey for being such a caring American who teaches kids and adults about the kind of person we should all try to be!
11/12/08 1:26 AM
Three years ago I was at Balad Air Base in Iraq. After one long day of work, these two airmen came in carrying some big boxes and on the top sat "Hero" decked out in a Santa hat and Rudolph red nose. They told us they had a treat for us and started passing out these Chinese food boxes decorated with a kid made turkey. Inside we found all kinds of goodies and a card. My card was signed by a little girl named Bailey and I guessed it was likely the Bailey was running the organization called Hero Hugs the packages had come from. The decorated box and the card came home with me from Iraq and three years later they both sit on my desk at work. Anytime I am having a hard day I read the words written by this sweet little girl and it reminds me that what I do is worth it.
Our unit borrowed Hero and took him out for some adventures, as many did. Our own kids loved us sending them photos of the bear and we took many knowing they would come in handy for presentations at schools and scout troops. We did several of those upon returning home and the photos of Hero were always the favorite for kids. We'd let the kids ask questions and all their questions would end up being about Hero! I hope the little girl gets her book published because I saw first hand how much this bear was not only aprreciated by our troops, but by kids. I think the book would be a top seller and Hero would become even more popular. Huge thanks to Bailey and all those who support her and help her! It is so refreshing to see someone so young giving back to others...Bailey you are no doubt my Hero!
11/12/08 10:03 AM
I live in Niceville and have seen Bailey in front of several discount stores in the local area working hard all year round to keep her stream of hugs flowing overseas. She is at it in all kinds of weather with a her smile asking if you would like to help send thank you packages to the troops.
I stopped to talk to her and her mother recently. Things are getting tough for the group. Stores are being much more restrictive on fund raising events. With the current economic woes, people are understandably not openning their wallets as easily. The worst thing they are told is- "Oh I already gave." While this war- support or oppose- may be slipping from the front pages there are hundreds of thousands of our neighbors in a distant desert serving our country, they do not get to say "I already gave" pack their duffel bags and come home for Christmas.
Visit Bailey's web site and find out hou you can help let these men and women know we appreciate the sacrafices they are making every day for our country. The operation appears to have about zero overhead- I am told their living room looks more like a warehouse for their supplies.
If you can spare even a dollar it would be a great help to their cause.
11/13/08 10:11 PM
I am a recipient of a few Hero Hugs packages while in Afghanistan. I happened to be there during Halloween and Thanksgiving. Bailey and Hero Hugs put together special holiday packages. I had the privilege of handing the packages out to soldiers as they left to go on patrols. It is too bad Bailey could not see their faces, because those little packages made a difference in their attitudes. This is a very special program which I have seen and received the rewards from.
Thanks Bailey and Thanks Hero Hugs!
11/14/08 2:56 PM
I see were you are coming from with that idea.it is a preety good one to.
11/15/08 12:07 AM
This little girl needs to be on Oprah, Ellen and The Tonight Show!! Think how much better our world would be if more of us had a heart like this little girl does. Thanks to American Profile for a story that hopefully inspired others as much as it did me! I am saving my copy of American Profile because I will bet we will be seeing lots more amazing things from this little girl. Who knows, maybe it will be President Bailey in 2036!!
11/19/08 4:57 PM
I am a retired doctor/ since July,31 of this year. I am a Vietnam vet, having served as a member of the US Army Medical corps in the war zone from late 1966 to late 1967.I know how stressful war can be by my own response as I served in a MASH unit in the Highlands and caring for the wounded heroes of that controversial conflict. So I do know how any caring group or individual, such as Bailey and her Hugs for Heroes organization can affect changes in the attitudes of our troops. This young girl needs to get a hug from this entire country as she is a real live uplifting "Heroine"; and all the other children and associated adults in the organization, begun by Bailey, need a hearty thanks and a Hug in return. You all have earned my thanks and respect forever. Though the Vietnam War was a far different war than Iraq and Afghanistan, war is war no matter how it is fought. Our troops ARE FAR FROM HOME DEFENDING FREEDOM and they need what Bailey is giving them; a nice connection to home! Congratulations young lady and keep up the good work. I do plan on making a donation to help further your program. MAB,M.D.
11/29/08 12:33 PM
I've known Baily and her Mom for a few years.
She truely is an amazing kid and no matter how many awards she gets and how much recognition she gets,she is still the same sweet soft spoken Bailey. I like to tease her about being famous and getting to meet all the big wigs! Maybe one day she will find her way onto one of those shows.I know i'd watch then!!
Go Bailey!!
12/1/08 8:29 AM
Dear Bailey, You go girl. I am so proud of you for what you are doing. I'm glad you shared your story with American Profile for me to read. I love reading their stories because they are so uplifting. I try to engage in positive stories to make me happy. I'm glad I started off my day with reading your article. You gave me a happy heart that will stay with me throughout my day.(Actually for the rest of my life)Everyday you are doing the same for many soldiers. I'm sure these soldiers are sharing their experiences of your gifts with family members and friends. This way it is spreading throughout the world daily. This is exactly what this world needs. So, I want to thank you for doing your part to make this a happier and better world. I believe God gave your "Special Mom" the gift of "Special You" for that reason.
I'm also very proud of your Mom for a few reasons...for raising such a terrific daughter,for teaching you great values and morals, for allowing you to follow your dream.
I hope every Mom and Dad who reads this story shares it by reading it to their children. We need more like you. You are our future. With many more Bailey's around,we will have more caring,sharing, love,appreciation and happiness,that this world need.
So, Bailey, I praise you for all you have done in all your efforts and with getting so many others to participate in Hero Hugs. I thank you and commend you for all you have done,so far,for our troops.
I wish you all the best. God Bless you.
I love you. Kel
3/29/09 11:57 PM
I was at an air show today and actually met this little girl. I read the article about her in American Profile and was so shocked when this amazing little girl I read about walked up to me at the air show toting her bear Hero and handed me a bag filled with some awesome stuff and said thank you for your service. Bailey is even cuter and sweeter in person!! I am still in awe over meeting the little girl. I don't know that I really would have given it as much thought had I not read the article about her in American Profile prior to meeting her....for us it was like meeting a national celebrity. It an absolute honor and this little girl is my hero! I hope people continue to support her efforts.....it is greatly appreciated by the troops she gives her hugs to!
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